RELATIONSHIP SECRETS!
I wanted to tell this story using hard facts. I even went out and bought this month's trendy women's rag to get some juicy stats. I was reminded why I stopped reading them. Among other things, I found ways to trick a person into loving you, ways to hide who you really are, and thousands and thousands of 'tips' guaranteed to make you or to reel in a better catch.
On the sadder note, doing an internet search for relationship statistics netted me domestic and partner abuse sites.
Well, I have decided to cast statistics aside and write about what all men and women instinctively know. What we are truly looking for in a mate. I have narrowed it down to a top five list.
1. We want our mate to be compassionate. Webster's defines it as 'pity aroused by the distress of others, with the desire to help them.' That's good, to have pity paired with action. We want our mate to care about their surroundings and work to make the world around them a better place.
2. We want to be unconditionally loved by our mate. 'Absolute. Without clarifying conditions.' Everyone wants to be loved in sickness and in health. With or without the extra twenty pounds. Even though we have that irritating way of using the word 'ignorant' when we mean 'rude.' Or, more seriously, we want to be loved when we're obtuse, stubborn and even occasionally mean.
3. We absolutely need our mate to be honest. Webster's says, 'never deceiving, sincere, truthful.' It's usually a deal-breaker when someone violates the other's trust. 'Be honest, no matter what.' People hate being lied to by someone they've given their hearts to.
4. We want passion from our mate. 'intense emotion.' Passion is something that no one should live without, no matter who they are. Passion takes on so many forms, but the passion between two people in love can be remarkable. It's that indescribable, remarkable chemistry. Call it pheromones, call it soulmates; you know when it's there.
5. We need our mate to be faithful. 'Steadfast in faith, loyal, trusting.' Oh sure, this can fall in the honesty category, but who wants to be told their mate was cheating on them? Rather than be honest about cheating, we would rather they don't cheat. We want to be important enough to be cherished and respected.
WHERE IS THIS GOING?
Good question. I have great news for everyone tonight. Your perfect mate has been found! Based completely on the five qualifications, I can point you in the direction of the only one I know that can fulfill them perfectly.
(come on...You know where this is going, right?)
1. Compassionate. Over seventy-five times that word is used in the Bible. Let me give you a few examples of God's kind of compassion for us. "As a father has compassion on his children, so the Lord has compassion on those who fear Him." Psalm 103.13 By the way, that's not the fear as in hide under your bed. Rather, that's the awe and reverence kind of fear. "..With everlasting kindness I will have compassion on you, says the Lord your redeemer." Isaiah 54.8 And finally. The man who had enough compassion to walk among us; "A man with leprosy came to Him and begged Him on his knees, 'If you are willing, you can make me clean.' Filled with compassion, Jesus reached out with His hand and touched the man. 'I am willing,' He said, 'Be clean!'" Mark 1.40-41
2. Unconditional love. Hands down, the Bible has the corner on this one. It is a story of unconditional love. But, if you need a few examples: "...Gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love," Exodus 34.6 Jesus- "As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love." John 16.9 "Your love, O Lord, reaches to the heavens," Psalm 36.5 "Give thanks to the Lord, for He is good; His love endures forever." Psalm 106.1 And, in case you are still unconvinced, the clincher for me; "But God demonstrates His own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us." Romans 5.8
3. Honesty. "All your words are true; all your righteous laws are eternal." Psalm 119.160 "I, the Lord, speak the truth; I declare what is right." Isaiah 45.19 "For the law was given through Moses; grace and truth came through Jesus Christ." John 1.17 As a side note, Jesus uses the phrase, "I tell you the truth" over a hundred times in the New Testament. He was trying to make a point, I would say.
4. Passionate. God is a lover. I didn't understand this one at first. He was more parental than lover. Let's see if this will help. "I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with loving-kindness." Jeremiah 31.3 "Since you are precious and honored in my sight, and because I love you, I will give men in exchange for you," Isaiah 43.4 And, Jesus, "He who loves me will be loved by my Father, and I too will love him and show myself to him." John 14.21 I could write more on this. Most of the Old Testament is a passion play. Imagine, you have a lover that you lavish over and are overjoyed with. That same lover goes and tosses you to the side for want of others. That's God, the one who was forsaken. His passionate heart seeks after us when we don't deserve it. Remember that.
5. Faithful. I think we've covered that, haven't we? A faithful One sends His Son to a world to die. A faithful one listens to our prayers, hears our tears, and holds us when we fall. "They will be my people, and I will be faithful and righteous to them as their God." Zechariah 8.8 "He is the Rock,His works are perfect, and all His ways are just. A faithful God who does no wrong, upright and just is He." Deuteronomy 32.4
Well, I could have kept going with examples. There are thousands of testimonies to God's faith, love, passion, honesty and compassion. He can't compare with anything we can see on this earth. He wants to have a perfect relationship with you. Think about it.
Monday, November 07, 2005
Tuesday, November 01, 2005
SCARED STIFF
I heard a statistic yesterday that sent shivers up my spine. I want you to take a moment to think about what this statistic means: 68% of Britons believe in ghosts and spirits. 55% believe in the existence of God. When asked, a large majority of the ghost-believing group say they do so because of television reality shows and documentary programming.
For those not up on their Christian history, here's an interesting tidbit; Europe used to refer to itself as "Christendom." Europeans built amazing cathedrals to accommodate their acts of worship. As pilgrims, missionaries and conquistadors, they sailed the Earth, to convert heathens to the true faith. Now, only 20% attend church once a week. No one quite knows where religion went to in Europe.
I knew this was going on in Europe. It just stunned me to hear it on the 6 o'clock news. Of course, we are a statistical society. If something is 'mainstream' and the majority of the population accept it, well it must be all right then.
Let's look at the statistics I found in a popular Christian magazine. I found these shortly after I heard the news story about the British.
1.5 million Russian women gave birth last year. 1.6 million had abortions. I did some research and found another site that says conservative statistics from abortion clinics state 3-4 million abortions were performance in Russia last year. They say that the average women has from 3 to 8 a year. The government is trying it's best to curb the number of abortions, as the Russian population is steadily running negative. Officials say they are 'doomed to extinction' if abortions aren't reduced dramatically. Abortion is the most popular form of family planning in Russia. Abortion is a stronghold left from the cold war. If I might add, Communism didn't like religion either. Russians were not allowed to express much of their beliefs.
One more set of statistics tonight. This one is three-part, so hang with me.
71% of Americans consider the U.S.A. a "Christian Nation." 41% of Americans have a favorable impression of the "Christian conservative movement." 45% of Americans have a favorable impression of Muslims.
IS THERE A POINT TO ALL THIS?
Believe it or not, there is. Britons support the supernatural more than the Savior. Russians are in the process of self-genocide, and I know some of that is due to a lack of a Savior as well. Now, the statistics for America appear okay, right? We're still a Christian nation. Sure, but statistics tell us that Americans don't like the messenger much.
Let me tell you what the bible says we should act like:
"Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good...Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer...Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse...Live in harmony with one another...Do not repay anyone evil for evil...Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone...Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good." Romans 12.9-21
No one should allow a human to represent all that is meant by Christianity. If you see flaws in us it is because we are flawed. Only Jesus is not flawed. He modeled what is meant in those words from Romans perfectly. We are a shadow in the Sahara winds by comparison. Should we try to live those words? Of course, God helps us everyday to grow in Him.
It's easy in these times to not see the forest for the trees. Television and print can portray the Christian as a fundamentalist and not tolerant. Fortunately, the truth is that we are a work in progress. Why God uses humans to represent Him is a mystery, but it's a divine mystery of love on His part.
If you have a desire to know Him more, or know Him better, don't let people get in the way. It's people that caused the statistics for England and Russia. Let the God of the Universe speak to you Himself. Think about it.
I heard a statistic yesterday that sent shivers up my spine. I want you to take a moment to think about what this statistic means: 68% of Britons believe in ghosts and spirits. 55% believe in the existence of God. When asked, a large majority of the ghost-believing group say they do so because of television reality shows and documentary programming.
For those not up on their Christian history, here's an interesting tidbit; Europe used to refer to itself as "Christendom." Europeans built amazing cathedrals to accommodate their acts of worship. As pilgrims, missionaries and conquistadors, they sailed the Earth, to convert heathens to the true faith. Now, only 20% attend church once a week. No one quite knows where religion went to in Europe.
I knew this was going on in Europe. It just stunned me to hear it on the 6 o'clock news. Of course, we are a statistical society. If something is 'mainstream' and the majority of the population accept it, well it must be all right then.
Let's look at the statistics I found in a popular Christian magazine. I found these shortly after I heard the news story about the British.
1.5 million Russian women gave birth last year. 1.6 million had abortions. I did some research and found another site that says conservative statistics from abortion clinics state 3-4 million abortions were performance in Russia last year. They say that the average women has from 3 to 8 a year. The government is trying it's best to curb the number of abortions, as the Russian population is steadily running negative. Officials say they are 'doomed to extinction' if abortions aren't reduced dramatically. Abortion is the most popular form of family planning in Russia. Abortion is a stronghold left from the cold war. If I might add, Communism didn't like religion either. Russians were not allowed to express much of their beliefs.
One more set of statistics tonight. This one is three-part, so hang with me.
71% of Americans consider the U.S.A. a "Christian Nation." 41% of Americans have a favorable impression of the "Christian conservative movement." 45% of Americans have a favorable impression of Muslims.
IS THERE A POINT TO ALL THIS?
Believe it or not, there is. Britons support the supernatural more than the Savior. Russians are in the process of self-genocide, and I know some of that is due to a lack of a Savior as well. Now, the statistics for America appear okay, right? We're still a Christian nation. Sure, but statistics tell us that Americans don't like the messenger much.
Let me tell you what the bible says we should act like:
"Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good...Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer...Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse...Live in harmony with one another...Do not repay anyone evil for evil...Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everybody. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone...Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good." Romans 12.9-21
No one should allow a human to represent all that is meant by Christianity. If you see flaws in us it is because we are flawed. Only Jesus is not flawed. He modeled what is meant in those words from Romans perfectly. We are a shadow in the Sahara winds by comparison. Should we try to live those words? Of course, God helps us everyday to grow in Him.
It's easy in these times to not see the forest for the trees. Television and print can portray the Christian as a fundamentalist and not tolerant. Fortunately, the truth is that we are a work in progress. Why God uses humans to represent Him is a mystery, but it's a divine mystery of love on His part.
If you have a desire to know Him more, or know Him better, don't let people get in the way. It's people that caused the statistics for England and Russia. Let the God of the Universe speak to you Himself. Think about it.
Thursday, October 27, 2005
WHY IT NO LONGER REALLY MATTERS
"There can only be two basic loves, the love of God unto the forgetfulness of self, or the love of self unto the forgetfulness and denial of God." - Thomas Merton
It's a challenge to step out in faith and live the life God calls the Christian to live. I think that may be the most understated sentences I will ever write. I could write volumes about that subject, but what I'm talking about here is living Christianity in today's world. 'Jesus Freak' used to be an insult, but now it's hip. However, there's a slew of other things that people call Christians that will never be hip. Of course, in parts of the world, not only will the Christian be called names, but there's a good chance they will be killed for their proclimation of the Savior.
I can't pretend to know what that's like. As of now, we are relatively safe in America. Not safe from name-calling and occassional harassment, but safe from death. But what happens here can make it a challenge to witness and speak of the Lord. I know what mainstream media thinks about me. I read the articles that put words like 'alleged' and 'supposed' in front of 'faith' and 'truth.' Heck, I even know what some of my family thinks about me. It took months for me to convince them I wasn't in a cult. Still, when I mention my life, I still hear the unpleasant silence that indicates their uncomfortability.
Nonetheless, I'm called to actively live my faith everyday. I think it's tough to dodge hurled insults; would I last a day when I would fear death speaking the name of the Lord? I used to fear what friends and family would think about me. I tried to tone down the truth. With my in-laws? Forget it. I'll leave the witnessing to my husband.
Then, I thought I'd get really upfront about my love of the Lord. I bought lots of Christian tee-shirts, I plastered my car with witnessing stickers. I would adamtely protest things that were 'Un-Christian.' Give me a break. I don't know who I was trying to be with my 'drive-by evangelism,' but I wasn't being true to my Lord.
SO, DO I HAVE A POINT?
"The apostles left the Sanhedrin, rejoicing because they have been counted worthy of suffering disgrace for the Name. Day after day, in the temple courts and from house to house, they never stopped teaching and proclaiming the good news that Jesus is the Christ." Acts 5.41-42
Do you see that? They were actually happy because the Lord had chosen them to suffer for Him. Can I say that? Here's another. It's long but it really makes a point:
"Rather, as servants of God we commend ourselves in every way: in great endurance; in troubles, hardships and distresses; in beatings, imprisonments and riots; in hard work, sleepless nights and hunger; in purity, understanding, patience and kindness; in the Holy Spirit and in sincere love; in truthful speak and in the power of God; with weapons of righteousness in the right hand and in the left; through glory and dishonor, bad report and good report; genuine, yet regarded as impostors, known, yet regarded as unknown; dying, and yet we live on; beaten and yet not killed; sorrowful, yet always rejoicing; poor, yet making many rich; having nothing, and yet possessing everything." Paul in 2 Corinthians 6.3-10
Does this life sound easy? No. It's not for someone who likes to blend in with the crowd. Sure, I hear what people say, and I have a good idea of how they think. But my choice, and yours, is who's opinion matters more. To those apostles who gladly wore the scars of shame, and for Paul; their choice is obvious. I want my choice to be obvious too. Think about it.
"There can only be two basic loves, the love of God unto the forgetfulness of self, or the love of self unto the forgetfulness and denial of God." - Thomas Merton
It's a challenge to step out in faith and live the life God calls the Christian to live. I think that may be the most understated sentences I will ever write. I could write volumes about that subject, but what I'm talking about here is living Christianity in today's world. 'Jesus Freak' used to be an insult, but now it's hip. However, there's a slew of other things that people call Christians that will never be hip. Of course, in parts of the world, not only will the Christian be called names, but there's a good chance they will be killed for their proclimation of the Savior.
I can't pretend to know what that's like. As of now, we are relatively safe in America. Not safe from name-calling and occassional harassment, but safe from death. But what happens here can make it a challenge to witness and speak of the Lord. I know what mainstream media thinks about me. I read the articles that put words like 'alleged' and 'supposed' in front of 'faith' and 'truth.' Heck, I even know what some of my family thinks about me. It took months for me to convince them I wasn't in a cult. Still, when I mention my life, I still hear the unpleasant silence that indicates their uncomfortability.
Nonetheless, I'm called to actively live my faith everyday. I think it's tough to dodge hurled insults; would I last a day when I would fear death speaking the name of the Lord? I used to fear what friends and family would think about me. I tried to tone down the truth. With my in-laws? Forget it. I'll leave the witnessing to my husband.
Then, I thought I'd get really upfront about my love of the Lord. I bought lots of Christian tee-shirts, I plastered my car with witnessing stickers. I would adamtely protest things that were 'Un-Christian.' Give me a break. I don't know who I was trying to be with my 'drive-by evangelism,' but I wasn't being true to my Lord.
SO, DO I HAVE A POINT?
"The apostles left the Sanhedrin, rejoicing because they have been counted worthy of suffering disgrace for the Name. Day after day, in the temple courts and from house to house, they never stopped teaching and proclaiming the good news that Jesus is the Christ." Acts 5.41-42
Do you see that? They were actually happy because the Lord had chosen them to suffer for Him. Can I say that? Here's another. It's long but it really makes a point:
"Rather, as servants of God we commend ourselves in every way: in great endurance; in troubles, hardships and distresses; in beatings, imprisonments and riots; in hard work, sleepless nights and hunger; in purity, understanding, patience and kindness; in the Holy Spirit and in sincere love; in truthful speak and in the power of God; with weapons of righteousness in the right hand and in the left; through glory and dishonor, bad report and good report; genuine, yet regarded as impostors, known, yet regarded as unknown; dying, and yet we live on; beaten and yet not killed; sorrowful, yet always rejoicing; poor, yet making many rich; having nothing, and yet possessing everything." Paul in 2 Corinthians 6.3-10
Does this life sound easy? No. It's not for someone who likes to blend in with the crowd. Sure, I hear what people say, and I have a good idea of how they think. But my choice, and yours, is who's opinion matters more. To those apostles who gladly wore the scars of shame, and for Paul; their choice is obvious. I want my choice to be obvious too. Think about it.
Tuesday, October 25, 2005
LETTING THE WORD SPEAK FOR HIMSELF
I thought I would share with you some of my favorite scripture verses. If for no other reason that one may strike you as it struck me. They are in no particular order, other than the first one of course. So, enjoy and think about it as always.
"This righteousness from God comes through faith in Jesus Christ to all who believe. There is no difference, for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that cam by Christ Jesus." Romans 3.22-24
"Show me O Lord, my life's end and the number of my days; let me know how fleeting is my life. You have made my days a mere handbreadth; the span of my years is as nothing before you. Each man's life is but a breath." Psalm 39.4-5
"Yet I am always with you; You hold me by my right hand. You guide me with your counsel, and afterward you will take me into glory. Whom have I in heaven but you? and earth has nothing I desire besides you. My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever." Psalm 73.23-26
"Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze. For I am the Lord, your God, the Holy One of Israel, your Savior." Isaiah 43.1-3
This next one is one that the Lord gave me. I love it. Jeremiah the prophet is speaking. He was chosen by God to give the rebellious people of Israel a message, and you can guess he's not popular for it. He wants to give up and run away, but he can't. It sums up how I feel about the Lord.
"But if I say I will not mention Him or speak any more in His name, His word is in my heart like a fire, a fire shut up in my bones. I am weary of holding it in; indeed, I cannot." Jeremiah 20.9
When the Lord is asked His name for the first time...
"God said to Moses, "I AM who I AM." Exodus 3.14
And the Lord tells us who He is...
"The LORD, the LORD, the compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness, maintaining love to thousands, and forgiving wickedness, rebellion and sin." Exodus 34.6-7
The rest of the New Testament tomorrow...
I thought I would share with you some of my favorite scripture verses. If for no other reason that one may strike you as it struck me. They are in no particular order, other than the first one of course. So, enjoy and think about it as always.
"This righteousness from God comes through faith in Jesus Christ to all who believe. There is no difference, for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that cam by Christ Jesus." Romans 3.22-24
"Show me O Lord, my life's end and the number of my days; let me know how fleeting is my life. You have made my days a mere handbreadth; the span of my years is as nothing before you. Each man's life is but a breath." Psalm 39.4-5
"Yet I am always with you; You hold me by my right hand. You guide me with your counsel, and afterward you will take me into glory. Whom have I in heaven but you? and earth has nothing I desire besides you. My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever." Psalm 73.23-26
"Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze. For I am the Lord, your God, the Holy One of Israel, your Savior." Isaiah 43.1-3
This next one is one that the Lord gave me. I love it. Jeremiah the prophet is speaking. He was chosen by God to give the rebellious people of Israel a message, and you can guess he's not popular for it. He wants to give up and run away, but he can't. It sums up how I feel about the Lord.
"But if I say I will not mention Him or speak any more in His name, His word is in my heart like a fire, a fire shut up in my bones. I am weary of holding it in; indeed, I cannot." Jeremiah 20.9
When the Lord is asked His name for the first time...
"God said to Moses, "I AM who I AM." Exodus 3.14
And the Lord tells us who He is...
"The LORD, the LORD, the compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness, maintaining love to thousands, and forgiving wickedness, rebellion and sin." Exodus 34.6-7
The rest of the New Testament tomorrow...
Monday, October 24, 2005
HOW INSIGNIFICANT
It's fascinating to read all of the speculation of recent. It seems that people really need to figure out what's going on in the world. What with the weather, Israel, Iraq; we rarely have time to focus on one news story for too long these days. If you randomly search websites like I have a tendency to, you'll find all sorts of predictions. Global warming is a big suspicion. Heck, I've even heard a prediction that our military was performing underwater nuclear bomb testing. Of course, I'm sure you know that the predictions of most intrigue to me have to do with end-time prophecy fulfillment. Just last night I researched two sites that discussed what each current event meant for the earth. It would seem that we are spiraling toward the end in a hurry these days. I haven't been the Lord's for that long, but people tell me that according to some folk, we've been heading toward the end for a long time.
Funny, but it seems to me that people miss the point. If the reporters and the webmasters are correct, and we are heading toward the end, what are we supposed to do about it? Let's suppose the Christians are correct for a minute. If we take just the most cursory glance at the Bible, we see that the first few lines make some big claims. "In the beginning, God..." It seems that He made everything. Yes, everything. Then, if we want to keep going, we find out that God even knows the names of the stars! "He (God) determines the number of the stars and calls them each by name. Great is our Lord and mighty in power; His understanding has no limit." Psalm 147.4-5. Wow. That's an enormous and unfathomable claim. So not only did God make each individual animal and each plant species, but He made and knows all stars and all galaxies.
Well, I have to go one more. He also made everyone of us and calls us by name too. (John 10.3)
WHAT'S THE POINT OF ALL THIS?
The point of all this is that people are focusing on the wrong thing. Re-read what I wrote above. He made all the stars and knows them by name. That's incomprehensible to us, isn't it? Yet, if we just believe that, then think about the fact that He's even interested in us at all. I'd make a horrible god because I'd look out at the stars all proud of myself and forget about foolish people. But He doesn't forget about us because He is an amazing and magnificent God. There are no words to describe our God, but people have been struggling to find the right ones for centuries. He cares about each and every one of us. He wants to share every intimate detail of our lives with us. Do awful things like hurricanes happen? Of course they do. The earth fell subject to sin way back in the beginning too. Is God there with us when they happen? Yes. He promises to love us; to be our rock and our strength in time of need. (Psalm 46.1)
So, whether or not the earth is ending tomorrow is not the correct question. Rather, the question is, DO you want the Lord that knows every star by name to be your Lord too?
Think about it.
It's fascinating to read all of the speculation of recent. It seems that people really need to figure out what's going on in the world. What with the weather, Israel, Iraq; we rarely have time to focus on one news story for too long these days. If you randomly search websites like I have a tendency to, you'll find all sorts of predictions. Global warming is a big suspicion. Heck, I've even heard a prediction that our military was performing underwater nuclear bomb testing. Of course, I'm sure you know that the predictions of most intrigue to me have to do with end-time prophecy fulfillment. Just last night I researched two sites that discussed what each current event meant for the earth. It would seem that we are spiraling toward the end in a hurry these days. I haven't been the Lord's for that long, but people tell me that according to some folk, we've been heading toward the end for a long time.
Funny, but it seems to me that people miss the point. If the reporters and the webmasters are correct, and we are heading toward the end, what are we supposed to do about it? Let's suppose the Christians are correct for a minute. If we take just the most cursory glance at the Bible, we see that the first few lines make some big claims. "In the beginning, God..." It seems that He made everything. Yes, everything. Then, if we want to keep going, we find out that God even knows the names of the stars! "He (God) determines the number of the stars and calls them each by name. Great is our Lord and mighty in power; His understanding has no limit." Psalm 147.4-5. Wow. That's an enormous and unfathomable claim. So not only did God make each individual animal and each plant species, but He made and knows all stars and all galaxies.
Well, I have to go one more. He also made everyone of us and calls us by name too. (John 10.3)
WHAT'S THE POINT OF ALL THIS?
The point of all this is that people are focusing on the wrong thing. Re-read what I wrote above. He made all the stars and knows them by name. That's incomprehensible to us, isn't it? Yet, if we just believe that, then think about the fact that He's even interested in us at all. I'd make a horrible god because I'd look out at the stars all proud of myself and forget about foolish people. But He doesn't forget about us because He is an amazing and magnificent God. There are no words to describe our God, but people have been struggling to find the right ones for centuries. He cares about each and every one of us. He wants to share every intimate detail of our lives with us. Do awful things like hurricanes happen? Of course they do. The earth fell subject to sin way back in the beginning too. Is God there with us when they happen? Yes. He promises to love us; to be our rock and our strength in time of need. (Psalm 46.1)
So, whether or not the earth is ending tomorrow is not the correct question. Rather, the question is, DO you want the Lord that knows every star by name to be your Lord too?
Think about it.
Wednesday, October 12, 2005
THE PRICK WE ALL FEEL
Maybe you notice that sometimes I take quite a while between postings. My original intention when I first started writing this was to post everyday, no exceptions. I love writing, and I wanted this to be something that my readers could go to everyday: an online devotional as it were. However, I am not able to post everyday because of a problem I have.
It's taken a considerable amount of time for me to decide whether or not to write this particular blog. I believe that any decent writer should take risks and go out on the proverbial limbs when creating their work, but that doesn't make it any easier. However, I also am as completely sure as I can be that God needs us to be truthful with one another for anything real to happen.
Enough said. As I continue in my walk with the Lord, I am becoming more attached to the writings of Paul. In the beginning, I shied away from him because I thought he was too expressive, too much. I admired Peter instead. Peter who would have Jesus ask him to walk on water, who would slash off the guard's ear defending his Lord. That was more like me I thought, the brash and fearless defender of the faith. However, as I continue on, I see how much Paul and I are also alike. First and foremost, we are both writers. That alone generates a certain bond. Secondly, he was open and vulnerable in order to help seekers and Christians alike know that we're not perfect; not even close. He does that perfectly in 2 Corinthians 12.
It is there that we read of Paul's thorn. Glory to God and His matchless wisdom for not revealing to us what Paul's thorn was. Oh sure, there has been speculation, but it was never confirmed. Instead, we are left being able to relate to a man who had a thorn in his flesh, one that could very well resemble my own.
"To keep me from becoming conceited...There was given me a thorn in my flesh, a messenger of Satan, to torment me. Three times I pleaded with the Lord to take it away from me. But He said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.' Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest in me." (2 Corninthians 12.7-9)
What a statement. When I became the Lord's I thought I would be rid of the sinful desires of my past. As a matter of fact, I thought I could rid myself of them if I just tried hard enough. I felt like a failure because I couldn't 'fix' myself of the lusts and cravings that surrounded me.
WHAT'S THE POINT?
The point is that I have a thorn that I have to deal with on a daily basis. Sometimes it causes me to stay away from the internet for a week or two. I have the thorn of pornography that if left unchecked, can lead me to places that I know I should not be. I am not completely safe on the internet, watching television, listening to certain radio channels, or by magazine racks. I've had this problem all my life, it's only now that I know just how dangerous and pervasive it really is. I have prayed for deliverance and blinders and porn is still around.
I have told my husband, and he tries to help me the best he can. I have also told some friends, and they work to keep me accountable. I usually don't go running to them though; something inside of me whispers not to burden them with another saga of my life. I know that's not true, but it is how I think nonetheless. I keep as many safeguards in place as I can, and the victory comes from tearing myself away from the stronghold and running in the opposite direction. Praying of course.
"That is why, for Christ's sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong." (vs. 10)
Think about it.
Maybe you notice that sometimes I take quite a while between postings. My original intention when I first started writing this was to post everyday, no exceptions. I love writing, and I wanted this to be something that my readers could go to everyday: an online devotional as it were. However, I am not able to post everyday because of a problem I have.
It's taken a considerable amount of time for me to decide whether or not to write this particular blog. I believe that any decent writer should take risks and go out on the proverbial limbs when creating their work, but that doesn't make it any easier. However, I also am as completely sure as I can be that God needs us to be truthful with one another for anything real to happen.
Enough said. As I continue in my walk with the Lord, I am becoming more attached to the writings of Paul. In the beginning, I shied away from him because I thought he was too expressive, too much. I admired Peter instead. Peter who would have Jesus ask him to walk on water, who would slash off the guard's ear defending his Lord. That was more like me I thought, the brash and fearless defender of the faith. However, as I continue on, I see how much Paul and I are also alike. First and foremost, we are both writers. That alone generates a certain bond. Secondly, he was open and vulnerable in order to help seekers and Christians alike know that we're not perfect; not even close. He does that perfectly in 2 Corinthians 12.
It is there that we read of Paul's thorn. Glory to God and His matchless wisdom for not revealing to us what Paul's thorn was. Oh sure, there has been speculation, but it was never confirmed. Instead, we are left being able to relate to a man who had a thorn in his flesh, one that could very well resemble my own.
"To keep me from becoming conceited...There was given me a thorn in my flesh, a messenger of Satan, to torment me. Three times I pleaded with the Lord to take it away from me. But He said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.' Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest in me." (2 Corninthians 12.7-9)
What a statement. When I became the Lord's I thought I would be rid of the sinful desires of my past. As a matter of fact, I thought I could rid myself of them if I just tried hard enough. I felt like a failure because I couldn't 'fix' myself of the lusts and cravings that surrounded me.
WHAT'S THE POINT?
The point is that I have a thorn that I have to deal with on a daily basis. Sometimes it causes me to stay away from the internet for a week or two. I have the thorn of pornography that if left unchecked, can lead me to places that I know I should not be. I am not completely safe on the internet, watching television, listening to certain radio channels, or by magazine racks. I've had this problem all my life, it's only now that I know just how dangerous and pervasive it really is. I have prayed for deliverance and blinders and porn is still around.
I have told my husband, and he tries to help me the best he can. I have also told some friends, and they work to keep me accountable. I usually don't go running to them though; something inside of me whispers not to burden them with another saga of my life. I know that's not true, but it is how I think nonetheless. I keep as many safeguards in place as I can, and the victory comes from tearing myself away from the stronghold and running in the opposite direction. Praying of course.
"That is why, for Christ's sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong." (vs. 10)
Think about it.
Thursday, October 06, 2005
THE REST OF THE STORY
So, one morning I woke up and felt this burning desire to go to church. I have to admit, looking back, that a desire to stab a fork in my eye would have made more sense to me. We hadn't been to church in years, and I had given up on God years before. Anyhow, off to church we went, the man, me and our two kids. Well, all good Catholic churches had already started. We drove around town, and found one that would be offering a service at 6pm that evening. We decided to go back then, but we had a few knockdown fights, and by the time 6 rolled around, no one wanted to go but me. So, off I went; determined to find out why I needed to go, and then to have fun at a bar afterwards.
Well, the mass was just as I remembered it; boring songs and repeat-after-me memorization quotes. But, then we settled in for the sermon. I was not expecting anything at this point. Priest got up, and began to talk about the gifts of the Spirit (very unusual for a Catholic). I will never forget this. He held up a glass of white milk, said this is your soul. Then he started pouring in chocolate syrup and said this is what it's like when you are baptized, given communion, and confirmed. He added a spoon and started stirring, saying that this is what your life is like when you use the gifts of the Spirit.
Well, he listed off some of the gifts, and I heard self-control (ha), wisdom and some others. Well, wisdom sounded great to me. I prayed, 'God, I give up. If you're out there, and you think you can do better with my messed-up life, go right ahead. Give me some wisdom so I can figure out what to do.' I left service and went to the bar, not thinking anything about it.
I can sum up what happened next in the biggest understatement ever; Things changed. The first thing I started doing was listening to Christian radio. I knew those people would have some information about what had just happened to me. Through advice I heard on the radio, I decided to start going to Christian counseling. Through him, I started attending a Christian 12-step group and started attending their Evangelical church where I rededicate my life to Christ. I woke up one morning with a burning desire to go to school again, and I just graduated with my bachelor's in Christian Ministry (see picture.) My fiance and I got married finally.
I know that there are other ways to describe what happened to my life. But I was in it. I know how fast it was going down the tubes, and I was ready to let that happen. God picked up my life from a sewer and cleaned me off.
He asks one thing of me; to love Him. To take the time to get to know Him, and be obedient to Him like you would any loved one. He asks me to lean on Him (which I'm not good at) and to trust Him (even worse). When I can't do that, He forgives me.
My life isn't perfect. My husband and I argue sometimes, I still sin. I am only forgiven.
WHAT'S THE POINT?
He loves you as much as He does me. He wants your heart, and your scars and bruises too. If you're His already, He wants the parts of you that you're keeping from Him. He wants ALL of you. I ask you to show me a human that wants every part of any of us; our good, our bad, our ugly. Yet, He does.
Think about it...
So, one morning I woke up and felt this burning desire to go to church. I have to admit, looking back, that a desire to stab a fork in my eye would have made more sense to me. We hadn't been to church in years, and I had given up on God years before. Anyhow, off to church we went, the man, me and our two kids. Well, all good Catholic churches had already started. We drove around town, and found one that would be offering a service at 6pm that evening. We decided to go back then, but we had a few knockdown fights, and by the time 6 rolled around, no one wanted to go but me. So, off I went; determined to find out why I needed to go, and then to have fun at a bar afterwards.
Well, the mass was just as I remembered it; boring songs and repeat-after-me memorization quotes. But, then we settled in for the sermon. I was not expecting anything at this point. Priest got up, and began to talk about the gifts of the Spirit (very unusual for a Catholic). I will never forget this. He held up a glass of white milk, said this is your soul. Then he started pouring in chocolate syrup and said this is what it's like when you are baptized, given communion, and confirmed. He added a spoon and started stirring, saying that this is what your life is like when you use the gifts of the Spirit.
Well, he listed off some of the gifts, and I heard self-control (ha), wisdom and some others. Well, wisdom sounded great to me. I prayed, 'God, I give up. If you're out there, and you think you can do better with my messed-up life, go right ahead. Give me some wisdom so I can figure out what to do.' I left service and went to the bar, not thinking anything about it.
I can sum up what happened next in the biggest understatement ever; Things changed. The first thing I started doing was listening to Christian radio. I knew those people would have some information about what had just happened to me. Through advice I heard on the radio, I decided to start going to Christian counseling. Through him, I started attending a Christian 12-step group and started attending their Evangelical church where I rededicate my life to Christ. I woke up one morning with a burning desire to go to school again, and I just graduated with my bachelor's in Christian Ministry (see picture.) My fiance and I got married finally.
I know that there are other ways to describe what happened to my life. But I was in it. I know how fast it was going down the tubes, and I was ready to let that happen. God picked up my life from a sewer and cleaned me off.
He asks one thing of me; to love Him. To take the time to get to know Him, and be obedient to Him like you would any loved one. He asks me to lean on Him (which I'm not good at) and to trust Him (even worse). When I can't do that, He forgives me.
My life isn't perfect. My husband and I argue sometimes, I still sin. I am only forgiven.
WHAT'S THE POINT?
He loves you as much as He does me. He wants your heart, and your scars and bruises too. If you're His already, He wants the parts of you that you're keeping from Him. He wants ALL of you. I ask you to show me a human that wants every part of any of us; our good, our bad, our ugly. Yet, He does.
Think about it...
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